It’s a question that often comes up on a second or third date. An innocent question with a more innocent answer:
What’s your favorite flower?
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The follow up question always pops up in my head but I never ask it aloud: Will you actually use this information? Are there flowers in our future?
Do you have a spread sheet in a secret folder on your computer? One that lists the name of ever lady you’ve dated with columns for “Favorite Flower”, “Favorite Candy”, “Favorite Sex Position”? It might not be such a bad idea. Because once you ask, kind sir, know that I shall be disappointed if/when you forget my answer.
For any gentlemen callers actually reading, you’re in luck. This blog notoriously provides a cheat-sheet on dating me.
Tulips. My favorite flowers are tulips.
And lucky for me, my favorite flower is all over New York City this time of year.
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Unlike my bemoaned lack of a Magnolia Festival, there is an official celebration for my favorite flower! Every spring the West Side Community Garden hosts a Tulip Festival. Seeing as no man in my life is currently showering me with flowers, I had to go check it out.
Who am I kidding, I would’ve gone even if I had a fella who filled my entire apartment with tulips every weekend! (Cheat sheet: NOT suggesting you do that!)
West Side Community Garden Tulip Festival
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Surprise #1: tulips alive and basking in the sunshine are much prettier than those cut and confined to a vase.
Surprise #2: I’m not the only person in NYC obsessed with tulips. Tulip enthusiasts flocked to West 89th Street in droves. None of us were disappointed. These brightly colored beauties put on a festival worthy show. Just by being themselves.
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They’re pretty, pretty, purple, yellow, red, and pink selves.
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Sunshine on tulips and pups with their misters
Walks in the park, wearing shoes with no blisters
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Slushy gray winters that melt into springs
These are a few of my favorite things.
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What are a few of your favorite flowers? Do you ask people you’re dating what their favorites are and make a point to remember? Anyone willing to admit to a spreadsheet?
Also, flowers seem to be such a gendered gift. I feel confident saying: Many women like receiving flowers. I do not feel I can say the same about men. Do you agree? Am I wrong? Has anyone ever bought a man a bouquet? If you are a man, have you ever received one? How did you/do you think you’d react, dudes?
I once wanted to give a man I’d been dating two months something to congratulate him on a exciting new job promotion. Flowers didn’t seem right. Other options- dinner, a bottle of scotch- seemed too big for where we were in the relationship. I ended up not getting him anything, which was the right choice given that he ghosted me a week later. But I still want to know- what’s the dude-gift equivalent of flowers? Tell me your thoughts.
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